The dating scene in Singapore is a lot different from dating girls from other countries. The upbringing and social culture that local girls are born with is very different from that of a Caucasian in America or a European in Croatia. If you use the methods and techniques you see on television which American actors use, or even worse use the material that they show wrongly in Asian television shows, you are in for a surprise. It will not work on Singapore girls.

In America, women, especially beautiful women are used to being hit on by strangers many times a day and have hardened up to that approach. The women there have extremely high self esteem and the best way to get girls like that is by going in a manner that does not trigger their “Pick Up” alarm.

There is another trigger altogether to think about when dating Singapore girls. Girls in Singapore are not used to being hit on fifty times a day, so even the pretty ones generally have low self esteem .But they are used to guys trying to be nice to them just to get them. Examples include bringing them to expensive restaurants, supplicating to them and sending them home after every date in a bid to impress them.

That kind of approach to dating is never going to work in today’s social context. There are basically three major mistakes local guys make when dating Singapore girls.

.Listening to female advice on dating

This is huge. If you are fighting a war, would you go and ask your enemy what the best strategy is for defeating him? Of course not. It’s the same thing with dating. With girls at the present having the upper hand at dating, do you think they are going to give their power away by telling you what works on them?That’s not to say that women’s comments on romance and dating is totally off target. Always bring a woman out to choose clothes for you,as they are much better at choosing fashionable clothing than a guy .

.Focusing on activities that do not increase your dating success

Another key point is that guys in Singapore have been conditioned to think that certain activities will increase their chances in dating beautiful local women. But the sad truth is that they do not at all. Pumping iron at the gym, finding ways to make more money and attending relationship courses  will never make you better with women. A person looking to get better at speaking on stage can only get good at it by taking a course directly related to speaking on stage and getting more stage time. It’s the same thing here


.Leaving their Dating Life up to Fate

This mentality is prevalent with almost everything a local male does. From politics in their local governance,career upgrades at  work to their dating life. They feel helpless in all aspects of their life and think that fate decides everything for them. The lack of doing anything proactive seriously dwindles their chances with local women.It’s the kind of mentality that will lead to under achievement and a feeling of powerlessness their whole life. Make a choice to change your dating life forever and stick to it. You will be amazed at what you can achieve.

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